Why I Don’t Recommend On Lead Greetings Between Dogs

I generally recommend avoiding on lead greetings between dogs, and it’s something I feel quite strongly about. Why? Because they are unnatural, restrictive, and can easily lead to problems.

Why on lead greetings can cause issues

When dogs are on a lead:

• They can’t move freely.

• They can’t create space if they feel uncomfortable.

• The lead can create tension and frustration.

Natural dog greetings involve movement, typically approaching in a curve, sniffing, and being able to walk away. On a lead, this process is restricted and often forced.

Lead to lead greetings can be especially problematic. Both dogs are usually being held tightly while trying to circle, sniff, and interact naturally, which removes choice and creates tension. That pressure can pass straight through the lead and collar and influence how the dog feels.

What can go wrong?

• Leads can tighten or tangle.

• Dogs may feel trapped or pressured.

• One dog may want to leave, but can’t.

• Situations can quickly escalate into reactivity or conflict.

Many lead issues, including lead reactivity, often start from repeated uncomfortable greetings.

The bigger picture

If your dog is allowed to greet some dogs but not others, it can become confusing:
“Why can I say hello sometimes, but not now?”

This often leads to:

• Pulling towards other dogs.

• Frustration.

• Overexcitement on walks.

This is one reason some dogs cope well off lead, but struggle when they meet another dog on a walk.

What do we want instead?

Our goal is a dog that can:

• Walk past other dogs calmly.

• Stay focused on you.

• Not feel the need to greet every dog they see.

Calm neutrality is far more valuable than constant interaction.

Are there any exceptions?

In controlled situations, greetings can happen:

• In a secure area.

• With compatible dogs.

• Ideally off lead or on a loose long line.

• With the option for both dogs to move away freely.

What should you do on walks?

• Keep your dog moving past others.

• Reward calm behaviour and engagement.

• Create space where needed.

• Advocate for your dog — it’s okay to say “no, not today” or “sorry, we’re currently training.”

By doing this consistently, you reduce the chances of your dog becoming reactive and help them feel more confident and secure around other dogs.